I hear from a lot of men who basically “bend over backwards”‘ to try to please their woman and make her happy.
This isn’t good or bad except when she can’t “feel you” and doesn’t feel your love and doesn’t feel that deep, warm, loving connection between the two of you.
Most men don’t understand their women, why they act the way they do and especially don’t understand why their women act the way they do with and around them.
We wonder “what’s up with her?”
We also think…
She used to be nice and loving. Why is she acting so weird?
Here’s a quick example of what I’m talking about…
“I wish she’d stop nagging, bitching and complaining.”
“I wish I could get him to step up and really be the man I know he can be.”
“I’ll just give him some hints (strong ones) to let him know how he could ‘light me up’ and make me want to really be with him in the way he wants.”
“I’ve had it. … I’ll just withdraw, distract myself or check out physically or emotionally.”
Here’s the point:
All the downright “weird” behavior that we men get from our women is usually either their attempt to get us to connect with them or get us to “step up” and be the man they see and know we can be.
The problem is… we men don’t usually see this.
We don’t step up.
We don’t love, connect and communicate.
The results are usually tragic (especially when they don’t have to be.)
My wife Susie and I believe that passion, love and connection never have to die.
To keep it alive…
We just have to learn how we can continue to stay open and loving to our partner no matter what is going on and understand how to communicate and connect with her in ways that continually open her instead of shut her down and close her up.
This isn’t always easy but the rewards are certainly worth it.
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