Relationship Advice for Men Who Want to Make a Woman Happy

In surveys, emails and when I’m talking to men in my everyday life they will very often ask me…”Otto, How Do I Know if My Woman is Happy or Not?”

My answer is often a whole lot different than the answer that most men will give. The reason that my answer is a lot different than that of most men is that if I want to know whether she’s happy or not–I look at things from HER perspective… NOT just mine.

That’s why it’s so important to look at relationships (and everything else in your life) from more than one perspective.

That being said…Here’s the number one sign (according to men) that their woman is happy…

She smiles at him.

That’s right, a simple smile is all it take to let us men know that she’s happy.

I give you dozens of ways to light up your woman and make her smile at you and let you know that she loves you and wants you in my book and audio program “Light Her Up”.

But here’s the question…

What can you do to make her smile more often and let her know how much you love and care for her?

The answer may surprise you…

It’s give ALL of you to her without holding back. You can let her know what’s going on inside that mind of yours that you try to keep to yourself.

You can open yourself to her and let her know about your dreams, desires, wants, fears and frustrations.

In other words…give her ALL of you and not just some of you.

The cool thing about giving her ALL of you is you still get to keep ALL
of you too.

One of the blocks we men typically have with our woman is knowing how to communicate with her in a way that makes her feel totally loved and connected to us.

Hint: That’s one of the main things she wants from you is to feel totally
connected to you. When she feels connected to you is probably also
one of the times when she is most likely to smile at you.

So…What you can do that will work wonders with your woman is to tell her things that you would normally keep to yourself and try to work
through without anyone else’s help or without anyone else knowing
what’s up with you.

I go into this in-depth in my “Crash Course In Communicating With Women”.

One suggestion from this course is this…

One of the things you can do to make her feel like you are opening up to her is to (every once in a while) say something to her like…. “Something’s been happening at work that doesn’t feel right to me is__________________ ” and fill in the blank with what is happening to you that you don’t like.

Don’t say something like this to have her fix you or the situation… but say words like these to let her know you are opening up to her more emotionally and personally.

She’ll love it when you do things like this that let her into your world more of the time.

Do this every once in a while and I think you’ll love the positive response you get from your woman.

Oh, and one more thing…

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