For men who want to be truly happy with their woman...

How To Quickly and Easily Get Her To Stop All The Fights, Criticism, Stonewalling and Finger Pointing So You Can Get Back To Having The Passion, Intimacy and Sex You Want…

Tuesday 10:23 AM Eastern Time

Hey Man-

My name is Otto Collins. I'm a married guy and relationship coach from Columbus, Ohio and I gotta be honest with you.

Most guys I talk to are frustrated, confused, and feel like they're being blamed and criticized all the time for nothing and the worst part is that almost every guy I talk to isn't getting the love, appreciation and sex he wants from his woman.

I don't want to be too bold here but if you're looking for some ideas for how to rekindle the passion with your woman---I can help.

In order to help you though, I need to ask you a couple of questions…

  • Have you ever held back and NOT said what you wanted to say to your woman (just to keep the peace)?

  • Have you ever felt like you didn't know how to make your woman happy?

  • Would you like to feel more appreciated?

  • Would you like to feel more understood and be able to understand her more?

  • Have you ever felt unfairly blamed or criticized by her?

  • Would you like to have more sex with your woman?

  • Do you want her to initiate sex more often?

If you said "yes" to ANY of these questions, then please know that you are not alone and that's not all...

Not being able to communicate and connect with your woman is one of the biggest challenges for men in relationships period.

What's worse is...

Almost every relationship problem... from simple misunderstandings and disagreements to your woman's lack of desire to have sex with you--as well as everything in between--is directly related your inability to communicate and connect with her.

In fact, I'm willing to make a pretty strong statement here...

At the heart of every man's relationship problem, challenge or desire that's not being fulfilled is a communication problem.

This is why you and almost every other man I've ever met or talked to could benefit from a "crash course" in communication.

I used to think that if you and your woman really loved and care for each other, good communication would happen naturally and effortlessly and your relationship would be relatively free of stress and challenges.

After 15 years of being married to my ex-wife, I found out that this isn't true.

I found out that if you don't know the secrets to communicating and connecting with your woman, becoming the owner of a "divorce decree" was something that was going to be in your future, probably sooner than you think.

I'm certainly not going to say that poor communication was the only problem that caused my first marriage to end--but it was a major factor.

Shortly after that relationship ended...I got to thinking about whether I was going get into another relationship and how soon. At that time, I made a decision that I didn't realize at the time, would change my life and the lives of tens of thousands of people for the better in the process.

It didn't take me too long to figure out that "yes," I did want to be in another relationship and I did want love in my life. But what happened was that I decided that I didn't just want to be in any new relationship--I wanted it to be amazing.

As I thought about what I wanted in this new relationship...

I decided that I wanted to create a truly special relationship with a woman that was full of love, harmony and lots of great sex.

In order to create this amazing relationship that I wanted, I somehow figured out that I HAD to learn the skills and secrets of how to communicate and connect with her at a much deeper level than I knew how to do.

So, that's what I did.

I started reading, studying and learning everything I could about how to communicate and connect with a woman and boy am I glad I did.

This is because my "soulmate" and perfect partner, Susie, came into my life not too long after I made this decision to learn all these new communication and relationship skills.

What I can tell you about this is…

Even though Susie and I have now been in an incredibly passionate, loving and happy relationship for quite a few years now...

The truth is...

if I hadn't learned how to communicate and connect with a woman in ways that totally light her up and make her want and desire me... then, my new relationship with this incredible woman in my life would not have lasted either.

Because of what I've learned about how to communicate and connect with a woman, I feel very richly blessed beyond my wildest imagination in this relationship with Susie.

We spend our time together laughing. loving and making love.

A lot.

I want to help you turn things around and help you create more of what you want in your relationship too.

You see, I know how painful it can be to be with someone and feel totally alone.

I know what it's like to be with someone and not feel their love. I know what it's like to lie in bed at night hoping it will get better and not having a clue how.

I've felt the pain and agony of a love that has dried up and I want to make sure this doesn't happen to you or anyone else.

This is why I spend my time helping men, like you, learn how to create the kind of relationship you really want--a relationship filled with love, passion and lots of great sex.

That's also why I've created this brand new program with my wife and partner Susie called a "Crash Course in Communication For Men."

I've said it before and I'll say it again here...

Communication is a skill that can be learned and learned quickly with amazing results.

All you have to do is be open to learning and applying a few new ideas that you may not have tried before and you too can be creating or recreating the kind of relationship you really want.

How Men and Women Communicate Differently and
Why This Causes Big Relationship Problems For Men...

I used to think that all this "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" stuff we've been hearing about for the past few years was all total BS and in a lot of ways, I still do... except for when it comes to the communication differences in men and woman.

As a generalization, women like to talk, talk, talk... about everyone and everything.

They also like to form little "communities" with other people (especially women) so they can form closer bonds with like minded people.

Women talk, talk, talk so they can "connect" and "feel" and we men don't necessarily do this.

As a generalization, when we men talk, it's for totally different reasons.

When we men talk, it's usually for one of two reasons:

One: Is when we men are communicating to tell or "inform" someone of something.

Here, we're just giving information.


The second way we men typically like to communicate is to try to "influence" someone, sell someone on doing something or we communicate to create a certain outcome that we want.

While it's true that women do some of these things too, women communicate a little differently than we men.

Women communicate primarily to "connect" with other people.

We men don't do this.

Men don't typically communicate to "connect" but if we're going to get more of what we want from our women (especially sex...), we had better start learning how to and start doing it soon.

Not that we have to become a "woman" or like her to do this--but rather, we can learn to connect with her and still be the man we want to be.

Why Being Able To Communicate and Connect With Your Woman
Is Way More Critical To Getting The Love and Passion
Than You Might Think…

This is almost hard to believe but it's true…

When you boil it all down, men and women really do want the same thing in intimate relationships.

We both want love, passion, intimacy and great sex.

We both also want attention, support, kindness, to feel appreciated, understood and have a feeling of true genuine connection with our spouse or lover.

The problem is like a great cosmic joke that's being played on us by our Creator.

Men and women both want sex and men and women both want connection.

The problem in relationships happens because of the order in which we want these things that we both want in our relationships.

Let me explain it this way…

As a man, you get to the feeling of connection by having sex with your woman and she doesn't even want sex with you until she feels a true genuine connection with you.

If your woman feels happy, in love and truly connected to you, she will rock your world and give you ALL the hot, juicy, mind-blowing sex you can handle.

But, here's what you must understand about women that most guys forget…

In order for her to want to have sex with you , she HAS to feel connected to you.

So… with women "No Connection= No Sex."

That's right; she doesn't want sex and in fact, doesn't even think about it until and unless she feels connected to you.

For us men, it's totally different…

We can get aroused sexually or at least start thinking about having sex in almost no time.

I know in my case, all my woman has to do is walk by me wearing one of her sexy, low-cut tops or those workout pants where every curve is easily visible and I'm ready to stop whatever I'm doing and rip her clothes off and have sex right then and there.

I'm willing to bet you're the same way and this is making a whole lot of sense.

So, if you are going to get the love, passion and sex from her that you really want, here's the question that must be answered …

How do you make her to stop all the fights, blame, upsets, disagreements and finger-pointing, make her feel totally connected to you and get her to want to have sex with you more the time?

The answer is simple.

It's what the great motivational speaker Zig Ziglar talked about when I first heard him speak 25 years ago that also applies to your relationship with your woman…

He said…

"You can get everything you want out of life if you will just help enough other people get what they want…"

What this means regarding your relationship with your woman is THIS:

You can get everything you want from your woman if you can just make HER feel totally loved and connected to you.

And how do you do that?

By communicating with her as much of the time as possible in ways that make her feel totally loved and connected to you.

The good news for you is that this isn't "rocket science" and you can learn this quickly.

Here's how…

A "Crash Course in
Communicating With Women"

The breakthrough new program that shows you exactly how to communicate with your woman in ways that will make her feel totally and completely connected to you AND open her heart, mind and body to you in ways she never has.


What is a "Crash Course in Communicating With Women"
and What's In It?

A "Crash Course In Communication For Men" is a downloadable book and audio program that is the first "communication program" of its kind just for men who are either married or in a committed relationship and want to know how to communicate and connect at a whole new level with the woman in their life.

In the audio portion of this package, there are two instantly downloadable audio recordings from the two-hour "Crash Course In Communication for Men" teleseminar and web cast I did with my wife Susie recently. As you listen to these audios, you'll find that in the first portion of the teleseminar, we give you the theory behind why men and women communicate the way they do. In the second portion of the program, we go into detail with specific examples that if you try them out, you're bound to see your woman opening up to you in ways you never thought possible.

The book is an instantly downloadable communication guidebook for men and has 14 short, simple chapters that focus on teaching you one communication breakthrough idea in each chapter.

The info in the guidebook is NOT the same information that is on the audios that we covered in the "Crash Course in Communication For Men" teleseminar.

It is meant to serve as additional information to support you as you and your woman start communicating better with each other.


Here's a Partial List of What You'll Learn When You Download Your Copy of a "Crash Course In Communicating With Women" right now…

You'll discover…

  • How to communicate with your woman in ways that make her desire you personally and sexually much more of the time

  • Communication secrets to get her to initiate sex more of the time

  • How to communicate without conflict and confrontation

  • How to communicate in ways that make her feel so totally connected to you that she never refuses your sexual advances

  • How to make difficult conversations easy

  • The 4 reasons why almost all communication challenges happen and what you can do to make sure they don't turn into even bigger relationship problems

  • Communication skills that will keep the two of you connected forever

  • Communication strategies for stopping the constant tug of war over how to deal with issues like where to spend the holidays, what to spend money on and why, raising the kids, how often to have sex and who should initiate it

  • How to get her to be open and honest with you

  • How to understand your woman and how to talk to her in ways that she understands you

  • How to be honest with her without fear of how she'll react or think

  • The right way and the wrong way to be honest--one builds connection and trust, the other destroys it

  • Creative conversation-starters

  • The best ways to let her know if you want sex and what to say to keep the spark alive if she turns you down

  • The secrets to understanding a woman's emotions and how to keep your calm when faced with her firestorm of emotions

  • How to "read" your woman and know how she thinks so you won't be blind-sided by her moods ever again

  • How to listen to a woman so she feels totally understood, loved and appreciated and how THIS skill will get you everything you want

  • How to communicate with her without getting frustrated and angry.

  • How to use your differences to bring you together instead of tear you apart

  • How to stop doing the things that create distance, separation and misunderstandings

  • 4 things never to say to an angry woman (say any one of these four things at your own risk)

  • What to do when your woman emotionally shuts down to you

  • How to get her to let her guard down and actually start having fun again

  • And Much More...

How to tell if this "Crash Course in Communicating With Women"
program is for you...

If you have any challenges at all in communicating your thoughts, feelings or emotions to each other, then this program is for you.

If you are willing to invest a little bit of time, effort and energy into learning some new skills ideas and techniques that will dramatically improve the quality of your communication and instantly create breakthroughs in your relationship or marriage -- then this program is for you.

If you have even an ounce of desire to heal the communication issues and challenges that come up for you in your relationship or marriage, we sincerely believe this program can change your life.

On the other hand, if you aren't willing at this point to spend another second of your time on this relationship or your partner...
or are unwilling to give it one more try, then you should probably pass on this info and not bother downloading it.

This new "Crash Course in Communicating With Women" isn't a magic bullet or a pill that you take and then everything is instantly transformed into exactly what you want.

This program is for people who want more love and a better relationship and are willing to try some new ideas and strategies in their relationship or marriage and do something about it.

If you are willing to spend a little time and download the two audios and the book, go through them and apply what you learn, then the rest will be easy.

So how can you tell if this program is right for you?

The bottom line is this…

If you want more love, affection, kindness, attention, intimacy and more hot juicy sex with your woman-then, this "Crash Course in Communicating With Women" is for you and you should get your copy right now.

What Makes This "Crash Course In Communicating With Women"
So Different?

First of all, almost all relationship help that's available anywhere is usually either for "women" or "couples" NOT Men.

This program is the ONLY one of its kind, that I am aware of, that is specifically "FOR Men."

Let's face it…

Men and women are, in fact, different.

We think differently, we act differently we process information differently and as I said earlier in this letter, even though men and women both ultimately want the same things in relationship, the ways we want to go about getting what we want are dramatically different.

That's why you don't want a "cookie cutter" kind of approach to relationship or marriage issues and concerns.

You want something that is specifically and uniquely created just for men.

This program is the only one of its kind (that we are aware of) that is specifically designed to help men learn the secrets and strategies for communicating and connecting with their women and getting more of what they want in their relationship with their women.

Are you ready?

If you've read this far on this web page, I'm thinking that you're a man who really wants more from your woman and your relationship than you're getting right now.

It's time to stop pretending that everything is OK and make one simple decision to create the relationship or marriage that you want.

We can help you create what you want but you have to be willing to step up, be willing to learn and apply a few new communication and connection skills. If you do, your whole life and your relationship with your woman is going to turn around and be incredible.

When you start applying the skills, strategies and ideas that you're going to learn in this program, there'll be no stopping you. You'll be one of those men that other men look at and say, "That man knows what he wants with his woman and he knows how to get it."

The first step to lighting up your woman and getting the love, passion, appreciation and sex that you really want is in learning what we want to share with you here in a "Crash Course In Communicating With Women."

Make the decision right now to say "yes" to you, say "yes" to love and "yes" to an incredible love relationship with your woman--starting right now.

Order this program now using the add to cart button below and also get my free Light Her Up newsletter just for men…

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--Otto Collins

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All my best to you,

Otto Collins


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Don't put it off. Order now and you'll be taking that all important first step toward attracting and creating the love you really want right now.

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